Dealing
with a cheating spouse or cheating boyfriend can be one of the
most painful and devastating experiences a relationship can
face.
I cannot recommend this book enough.
It not only outlines specifically the 7 types of affairs (and
how to handle each - whether you choose to stay or go), but
you will find it's material empowering. This book will help
you to fully understand that YOU are not defective.
There is nothing wrong with YOU!
It also begins with the big question: "Do you really want
to be in a relationship with this person?"
Anyone faced with infidelity, or anyone who wants to avoid infidelity
should have a copy of this book. I cannot recommend it enough.
Tracey at pig-dogs.net
Dear
Dr. Huizenga,
I just bought your book yesterday and all I can say is thank
you. I was on a emotional roller coaster when I found out that
my wife was having an affair(#4). Everything you said about
the typical reactions for the
offended were dead on. Everything you mentioned, I was going
through( I was
miserable). You helped me more than anyone or any resource ever
did. It was uncanny how accurate everything was. Dr. Huizenga,
you saved me from so much pain and anguish, now I have the power,
the knowledge and the confidence to go on with my life. Thank
you for everything. Kelly
PS
I would have paid ten times more for the book if I knew how
truly
powerful
it was.
Your
E-book finally gave me some peace of mind and a roadmap to follow.
It was amazing how the type of affair my wife was having just
jumped out at me. Knowing that, and what to expect, has given
me hope that there will be a resolution.
Thanks, Bob ....Joe
This
is the one year anniversary of my life turning upside down due
to an affair. You helped me to move beyond the hurt and to focus
more clearly as I made some very hard decisions regarding my
wife's infidelity. The guidance you provided was invaluable,
both for understanding the affair and myself. Thank you...Tim
R
...your
E-book is a tremendous help. I reread it anytime I start feeling
that things are getting out of control. It helps put things
in perspective. Thanks for the help. Sharon
Your
e-book hit my situation dead on the head!!! I felt like I was
getting a reading from a psychic!!! I have chills right now.
Lauren
A
friend of mine suggested I buy your e-book on affairs which
I read with great interest! My husband had 2 affairs during
our marriage and we are now going through a divorce. I couldn't
believe how accurate your description was of him - he is definitely
number 3 but I don't feel he has always been which is the sad
thing really. Amber
I
am amazed at how on-target you are in your profiles of the different
types of "cheaters". I wish I had this two years ago--would
have saved me a lot of trial-and-error. Pamela
Your
ebook has already been a big help!No matter how this turns out
I'm already alot better off (feeling wise) than he appears to
be. Seems like your recommendations are right on target - he
can't figure out exactly what is going on other than I'm doing
very well these days and still being a very caring loving wife.
Thanks for all your help! Lisa
You
have opened a well-spring of ideas for me. Thanks! Kelly
...the
information I received from you in the e-book was some of the
most helpful I have seen, and I have read almost every "infidelity"
and "relationship" book ever published. Yvonne
I've
read the book---some parts over and over---and indeed it's worth
it. Thank you very much. Viki
I
find your writings an incredible source of comfort. I find power
in knowledge and you have helped me regain myself in all this
mess. THANK YOU!
Bill
I
learned why I am having the affair. Why I feel like I do and
that there is hope for me to break the Revenge cycle that Ihave
been on since I learned of my husbands affair 20 years ago.
I never let go and have had several one night stands and 3 affairs.
(One I am still in and want to break free of but cant seem to
stop). I finally recognize all the pain I have felt and all
the pain I am causing and what to do to stop it.
Your
approach is really different and unique. You have carved out
quite a niche for yourself! Michelle
I
really liked the phrase "I will make it." I have been
really down and it has some how reinspired me. I also liked
the 12 mistakes people make. I knew I wanted to stay in the
relationship (for a variety of reasons) but I was having a hard
time moving forward. Those 12 things really made me look in
the mirror. We have taken a lot of very positive steps. Jeanette
At
this time I find your writings an incredible source of comfort.
I find power in knowledge and you have helped me regain myself
in all this mess. THANK YOU.
Out
of all the books and websites and counseling I've gone through,
your site has been of the most help to me and I am trying to
find a way that I can get full benefit. Thank you.
the
information I received from you in that short time was some
of the most helpful I have seen, and I have read almost every
"infidelity" and "relationship" book ever
published.
you
are the best to have shared all you did...you helped me a great
deal. Ciao
Your
book contains more valuable and relevant and USEFUL information
than all of the books combined I have read over the last two-plus
years. Your book is so overwhelmingly superior to the many,
many books I have devoured over the last three years, including
the ones considered to be the "best" on infidelity/affairs/relationships,
and the information you provide is so profoundly on-target and
concisely written in a straightforward manner that it is having
a dramatic impact on my life and marriage and on my beliefs/views/strategies
as formed by and based on the other books. I want to thank you
for helping me. So often, those of us with limited resources
(money) are the ones who lose the most, because we can't afford
the very help we need. You have provided me with something I've
needed for a long time. I am so grateful.
Your
information was HUGELY helpful in helping me to categorize (to
a tee!) this "behavior" and of course look to move
beyond it...
I
have been using the Charging Neutral technique even without
knowing about it until today. This is not normal for me since
I am unemotional from day-to-day, but get emotional when we
fight and eventually explode (like the description in Affair
#5). Being very, very calm with her at first really scared her
(I have never hit/hurt her), but she has opened up tremendously
the more I can show that I won't explode.
As
usual your information is right on the mark. Its uncanny how
your stuff seems to reach me just when I am looking for the
information. It's marvelous to read. It makes me feel normal
again. Regards Yvette
Dr.
Huizenga, your book has provided me with greater insight, with
more understanding, with reassurance of my own value. But it
has also presented me with a scary problem: My husband's affair
was a very complicated matter, it is not going to be an easy
or short road to recovery, and it will not be easy determining
which tactics to use and when as I deal with building a new,
and hopefully better thanks to you, relationship with my husband.
Initially my heart and hopes sank as I discovered just how difficult
this "recovery" will be, but it is encouraging to
find that my intuitive responses in dealing with my husband
and his affair have more often than not been correct. You have
also given me many new ideas of ways to "shake up"
the way we communicate and relate with each other, something
we have needed badly for many years. I have a difficult road
ahead, I have to accept that, but you have helped me understand
that new territory better than I could have without this book.
I can never thank you enough or repay your generosity. Sally
Dr.
Huizenga: I knew my husband was involved with another woman.
His affair lasted two years and has been ended for almost ten
months. You have produced the most helpful, useful and relevant
book on dealing with your partner's affair that I have ever
seen. You include vital information that no other source contains.
Your profiles are so accurate it is eery! For me the most valuable
part of each chapter is the very specific advice on what YOU
can do to increase your chances that your marriage will survive
the affair. I felt many times as I read your book that you somehow
had been in my head and heart and living my life, your descriptions
and profiles are that accurate! Yvonne\
I
just finished reading your e-book How to break free of the affair.
I must state this was the best book on relationships I have
read thus far. my compliments on your wonderful book. Thank
you NR
My
wife and I have been fighting about 8 months now & she finally
moved out about 3 weeks ago I wish I would have gotten you e
book sooner. Joe
Can't
believe reading your ebook that the situations are just like
what I'm experiencing. My husband left the house three months
ago. Four days before our 25TH Anniversary We celebrated it
with a night in NYC Nothing spared. I know he's having an affair
& won't admit it. Lately, he's been a great deal better
with his attitude. I think the affair has somewhat come to an
end. He still needs two weeks to come home. Why??? I made an
appointment with a mediator. He flipped today with that. Mary
I
wanted to Thank you earlier but have been busy with the baby.
She is 3 1/2 months old and cutting her first teeth. Finding
you has been a God send for me. I hope God blesses you. Thank
you for this material and I will read every bit of it and use
it in my everyday living. Pam
...very
tightly and concisely written, in understandable language and
clear suggestions. Thanks! Nancy
...you
pose pertinent and sometimes uncomfortable questions I must
ask myself to determine my own motives for wanting to save my
marriage. But for me the most valuable part of each chapter
is your very specific advice on what I can do to increase my
chances that our marriage will survive the affair. Yvonne
Thanks
again for your site because it helps put me back on the path
of reality and truth and gives me comfort and hope. May God
bless. Carol
As
one of your members, I just wanted to say thank you for your
web site and for all you do to help others get through such
a difficult time in their lives. Several months ago I became
a member of your "club" and got your e-book "Break
Free From The Affair."
I
am impressed with your book, and it's been helpful. Bob
Dear
Dr. Huizenga, First and foremost I want to say that you have
already helped me tremendously just by reading some of your
articles and information on your website and your emails. Of
all the websites and books I have read, yours is superior in
regard to this subject. I sincerely appreciate all your work
to help people like me that are in the situations that we are.
John
I
downloaded your e-book and it helped me cope with what was happening
in my life. I must have read it 25 times!!! Thank You, Kathi
Already,
I have started putting into practice the suggestions from your
materials and usually feeling empowered. linda
First,
I have bought your ebook and have found it fantastic. I'm still
trying to identify which type of affair scenario fits my husband.
I am after only 6 weeks in surprisingly good "emotional"
shape, which in part is due to your book. Karen
Dear
Bob,I recently purchased your E-book "Break Free From Your
Affair" on November 10, 2003. I really depend on this book
right now. However, it is gone from my computer. I don't know
what happened to it. Please help. I need to refer back to it.
Robin
The
best Christmas present I will get. I will get over all this
and figure out what to do going forward. My faith in male/female
relationships has been severely damaged but I will work on that.
Sue
Just
a note to wish you a very happy holiday season. I want to thank
youfor all your help this past year. Your counsel and articles
have helped mea more than you will ever know. Whenever I start
to get down, I reread year book, especially the part on affair
#4. Joe
One
of the best parts of the book has been examining my motivations
and helping me decide to save the marriage or not. I have found
out much about myself and identified my fear of living alone.
I still struggle with the "I will make it" self message
and have some sadness over the loss of the relationship with
my wife. Overall I am very glad that I found your website and
appreciate the online discussion forum greatly. Marty
Your
book was very good, in fact one of the best I have read. Linda
I
look forward to hearing from you and for your ongoing advice,
you are an extremely important find for me. There is very little
pragmatic literature or advice out there .Sandy
Thanks
Bob for your encouraging words. I'm taking your advise and feel
confident and at peace that I am on the path to reclaiming my
integrity. I'm planning on a wonderful New Year! Joan
Here
are the things I have found good about your site/work so far.
1) It is written with a 360o degree viewpoint - that is to say
when you get into it you have thought about all the angles and
the implications of the problems an affair brings when disclosed.
2) Linked to this, I bought the E-Book on Sunday and read it
in one sitting - I have never thought about affairs (I was too
scared too, like most people) and found it absolutely fascinating
to think and consider what the propellers (motivates) are and
how they may be very different. I thought that the analysis
of what type of affair your partner has had was good to think
about and it gave me ideas for why my partner has had trouble
with other relationships (apparently this is the first time
with me in 2.5 years!). But his father also had 2 (that he knows
of extramarital affairs) affairs and I think this is 'in his
genes' if there is such a thing!? It turns out his father left
his first wife when he returned from the navy to find out she
had been unfaithful and he walked out immediately on her &
3 smallish kids, left Canada and joined the navy again to sail
as far away as possible traveling around the world and finally
settling in London where he met my partners mother.
3) It is well written and thought provoking. It's the cost of
a therapy session (£34 with my therapist) but you can
take it in a lot more and I felt like after the reading of the
ebook that I'd gone through a 'session' i.e. I'd thought, learnt
and was curious to learn more about myself and responses to
the events
4) it makes it clear that the dumpee (the one who has been lied
to) and this is perhaps the most helpful thing, can have so
much hope. I have to focus on me and recovering with or without
my partner.
5) it is easy for me to see my partner (ex!) as being a mix
of your types of affairs but that was not bad, I think that
it is too complex to make fix categories of it but a helpful
guide. But the best questions were the hard ones about why and
if one should attempt to save the marriage, but the advice of
how to be cool, calm and cheerful is so right but so hard! Thanks
so much for the good work Bob! Best G.
Thank
you so much. Your advice makes a lot of sense, for us to find
a way to use the pain of these prank calls to make us stronger.
I think my wife & I are making great progress together in
our relationship and saving our marriage. I thank you so much
for your ebook and your advice in this specific matter. As a
person who has felt like my life has been turned upside down
during this ordeal, you have provided me much support and "calm"
to my situation. Terry
I
have had a chance to browse through the ebook and spotted our
scenario immediately. I will try to follow your advice, it is
so nice to know what to do instead if flailing around doing
the exact wrong thing! Christine
Thank
you, I feel like I have an answer now and help. Thank you again.
Bless you for helping so many people. I wish I had found your
site a year ago and I might not be in this mess. Sincerely,
Debra.
I
learned about the kind of affair I was facing and that it was
not my FAULT. I also got practical strategies to get my life
going.
The
most important thing that I learned was that I had to worry
about myself first. Another thing that was important was that
I discovered that there was an emptiness that my wife was feeling
that was caused by something that occurred to her long ago.That
no matter what - I am going to make it! The affair is not my
fault. She chose to do it, not me!
"Is
'Not Knowing' Killing You Inside ... Or Your Marriage? Are
You Tired of All The Lies And Excuses? Are You Afraid That
You'll Confirm Your Suspicions? More Importantly, Will You
Ever Find Happiness Again, If It Does Exist?"
I
assume you are like 1,000s of others jolted by the affair,
asking these questions: (Substitute the word she for he if
you would like.)
•Do
I throw him out?
•Or, should I let time heal?
•Will the affair stop?
•How long will it last?
•Can my marriage be saved?
•Should I talk to the other spouse?
•Will
I ever be able to trust again?
•How do I get rid of my anger and ugly thoughts?
•Where did I fail?
•Will I ever forgive? Forget?
•Should I spy?
•and more...
You
are not alone! There is relief! There
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In
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Get
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fog of confusion and diminish the pain.
Have
the crazy days, sleepless nights, absent appetite
and queasy stomach fade.
Find
the strength and courage you never thought you had.
Exude a new power. He will notice and it will shake
his world.
Know
in your heart that the affair is not your fault.
No more self-blame and self-loathing. (You really
did your best, you know)
Know
exactly why he had the affair. You will know him
better than he knows himself.
In
the next 6 months turn this disaster into a new
opportunity.
Melt
your rage and hurt into understanding and eventually
compassion.
Become
an expert in affairs. Outsmart him and the OP.
Be
tough AND patient and understanding.
Eyeball
him and he will be the first to blink.
Surprise
yourself and partner with your newfound wisdom
and insight.
Have
a REAL chance to stop the affair.
Say
the right words that shake your partner to the bone
so he stops to truly consider the folly of the affair.
Don't
leave the affair to chance. Don't wait for "time to heal."
Don't waste time with simplistic
suggestions or vague generalities. Don't act out of desperation.
Use
my 20 plus years of research, study, experience and therapeutic
work with thousands of people to act with purpose and confidence,
knowing EXACTLY what you need to do to break free from the
affair.
Avoid
the 2 HUGE Mistakes 95% People Make
Most
people don't play it smart. They react…usually in one
of two ways.
They
try harder...to tolerate. They swallow….hard. They
wimp out and put up with all kinds of crap. (Sorry about the
language, but I assume you have thought worse.) They hope
time will cure and he will come to his senses.
Often
they try harder by being really nice - meeting his needs;
it's called "working on the marriage." Give him
what he always said he wanted and win him back.
Doesn't
work. You prostitute your integrity…and deep down you
know it.. and resent it. As well, you feel like you are competing
with the OP (other person.)
If
he does stop the affair and "comes back" it is out
of guilt or pity and what do you really have then?
Others
Go on the attack. Plead. Beg. Become righteous. Explode
every so often. Threaten. Become depressed. Enlist the help
of others. Use guilt. Use the children. Talk. Talk. Talk.
Desperately make promises.
Doesn't
work either. You don't have to become a basket case; it's
no fun. And if he does "come back" it's out of coercion.
Don't you want to be wanted rather than have him feel
like he must be with you because you bullied him?
A
Step-by-Step Guide that That REALLY WORKS for YOUR SITUATION
Would
you like a recipe, a step-by-step guide to help you break
through the confusion and fear? Would you like to know
the right words to say and when to say them so that they have
the maximum impact? Do you want to find a way to stay
connected, yet not push him away?
I
have that just for you. My E-book, coming out of my 23 years
of therapy private practice, gives you in-depth, proven and
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the midst of marital infidelity. This e-book comes straight
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people, like you, trying to break free.
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7
Key Steps, Guaranteed
to help you Break Free…
Know
in your Heart that the Affair is NOT your Fault.
My
E-book convinces you that the affair is not your fault. This
shift in your thinking is vitally important if you truly want
to break free from the affair.
The
affair is HIS problem. It is THEIR problem. What you did
or did not do did not "cause" the affair. He CHOSE
that avenue to solve his dilemma. Did you make mistakes? Sure,
we all do. Could you have done some things differently? Of
course! He could have also! You are NOT defective. No one
is a better lover or person than you. Nothing is wrong with
you!
Please
understand. I care for someone who is having an affair because
they are trying to find something - like all of us. The problem:
their way of finding that something is really misguided. Anyone
who chooses to trade one set of problems for a worse set,
or really believes that another person can make his life better
or "complete" obviously isn't thinking straight.
He
is either lost in his empty neediness or his life is run by
his glands. Choosing an affair is temporary insanity.
Affairs have absolutely nothing to do with love - everything
to do with personal neediness and the narcissistic need for
intense flattery. An affair is NOT the answer. Affairs don't
pan out.
This
is backed by over two decades of professional experience,
study and research. Here are the stats:
•80%
of those who divorce during an affair regret the decision.
•Over 75% who marry partners in an affair eventually
divorce.
•If an affair replaces the marriage, it is subject to
the same emotional stresses as the marriage but twice as likely
to fracture.
You
MUST Pinpoint the EXACT Kind of Affair Facing You
People
are different, right? Well, so are affairs. Affairs are
exceedingly complex, but there are patterns that you can identify.
What
works to break free from one kind of affair will be disaster
for another. Are you confused? Not sure what to say? What
to do? Afraid that saying one thing might be destructive?
Do you feel like you are walking on eggshells?
Identify
specifically what you are up against and you will feel more
confident because you know exactly what will work and what
will not work.
I've
identified 7 kinds of affairs marked by the different
excuses most commonly used. These types are thoroughly explained
in the E-book.
#1:
My Marriage Made Me Do It
#2: I Can't Say No
#3: I Don't Want to Say No
#4: I Fell Out of Love (and just love being in love)
#5: I Want to Get Back at Him/Her
#6: I Need to Prove My Desirability
#7: I Want to be Close to Someone (which means I can't stand
intimacy)
Discover
what Internally Drives Him to this"Act of Temporary
Insanity"
People
with different motives have different kinds of affairs. You
will learn more about him than he knows about himself.
You will understand his personality, how his past influences
him, how he typically copes with relationships, his self-defeating
patterns and more.
It
will hit you, "this person has a problem! - and it's
not all mine!" (This is not to say you don't have
problems, we all do, but they have their origin in you, not
someone else or an institution such as marriage.)
Once
you understand each kind of affair and the kind of person
who engages in that kind of affair, it all makes sense.
•You
make better decisions.
•You develop more effective strategies.
•You begin to understand why it is so difficult.
•You feel more confident and centered.
•You have a road map to follow.
•And…you feel better
The
FIRST and TOUGHEST Question you MUST ask Yourself
Do
you ever ask yourself why you remain with someone who is so
self-destructive and has such little regard for you? Do
you assume others are thinking the same thing: "Why
in the world doesn't she throw him out?"
Here's
the question you MUST face FIRST: Do I REALLY want to be
(married) in relationship with this person?
Don't
jump past this one with, "Sure, I love him… even
though he's doing this." It usually is a bit more complicated.
Do
I REALLY want to be married to him? Or do I want to be with
him out of my own neediness? Or for other reasons?
Here's
the underlying problem. If you hold on to the relationship
because of your neediness or external factors, the chances
of getting what you want are slim.
For
each kind of affair, I'll have you consider questions you
never thought about; questions that MUST be answered if you
have any hope of breaking free.
You
will be much clearer on what you REALLY want. He will know
and he will respect that.
Realistically:
What are the Odds of Saving Your Marriage?
As
you might guess, the odds of saving your marriage vary
according to the kind of affair facing you.
I
use a scale of 1 - 10 for each kind of affair and the odds
are based on thepremise that you and he will continue
in the same patterns. For example, I give the "My
Marriage Made Me Do It" between an 8 and 9 on a scale
of 1-10 where 10 means there is no way the marriage can be
saved. I give the "I Want to Get Back at Him" affair
(the revenge affair) a 3.
These
are not arbitrary numbers. I give multiple reasons for those
odds in the E-book.
With
Your Crystal Ball - Predict the Future
Yes,
you can see into the future. Affairs are predictable.
Once you identify the patterns you can project ahead and know
what most likely will happen next. Here are a few examples:
•You
CAN know how long he will be involved in that affair.
•You CAN know whether he is more susceptible to a one-night
stand or a long-term affair.
•You CAN predict whether this will be the one and only
affair or whether more are down the line.
•You CAN predict the nature of his relationship with
the OP.
•You CAN know whether they will live happily ever after.
•You CAN know whether it is primarily a sexual relationship
or emotional relationship.
•You CAN predict how and when the affair will end.
Once
you have the knowledge, once you understand the person(s),
once you see the patterns, it all makes sense.
How
to Increase the Odds of Saving the Marriage, If that's
What You Really Want To Do
Once
you see the larger picture and have gathered yourself emotionally,
it's time to act.
In
the E-book I provide an outline of exactly what action
you can take for each kind of affair. I put words into
your mouth, giving you phrases you can use with your partner
that fit exactly your situation.
With
each kind of affair I list skills that work best with that
affair and increase your chances for making significant change.
You
get 16 skills that you easily learn and apply to the 7 different
affairs: (you will only need to learn and apply those
skills applicable to the affair facing you. I'll show you
the one(s) that will work best for you.)
You
will learn when and how to send messages, use silence, get
to the real commitment, leap your partner, look for upset,
contextualize, peel away layers to the truth, and gap the
goal, to name a few.
Don't
Allow this to go on for 2- 4 Years,
so I'm Making a Request of You…
Most
studies indicate that if you go it alone, it takes 2 -
4 years to work through and resolve the affair, whether
you stay married or not. Yes, you read that right. But, you
want the agony to end today or yesterday, don't you? Well,
it won't…and there are no magic wands to make that happen.
But,
and this is a huge but, it NEED NOT take 2-4 years.
Here's
what I want you to do: Make a personal commitment to use
the next 6 months to learn everything you can about infidelity
and the affair facing you. Gather your strength and courage
and begin using new skills to stop the affair and develop
the kind of life and relationship you REALLY want.
Take
This Step NOW!
Here's
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A better life waits for you.
Decide
now to learn exactly what kind of affair faces you and the
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