Saturday, April 15, 2006

Think Long Term and the Impact

This is a very useful comment submitted by a reader. I hope you can read it.

After a rocky 9 year marriage, I met a man with whom I "clicked." We were friends for three years before I left my husband to persue a physical relationship with this man. I misunderstood what I was feeling, I wanted this friendship with my husband. Sex with this other individual made me depressed and full of shame. I was more comfortable to be away from this new relationship than inside of it. I will never get over the pain I caused my husband, myself or this other person. I acted horribly because I never sought help with the difficulties entrenched in my marriage. And I ruined a friendship...Think "long-term result" before jumping into anything like this.

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