Wednesday, April 26, 2006

How To Heal A Broken Heart

Submitted by a reader and I hope that you can progress well to recover.

I think "revenge" on a cheating husband will put you in a deeper trouble (emotional and spiritual). It will surely add more sadness and pain in you should you succumb to "revenge".

For me, crying and excercising are the best tonic for the healing process to start. When tears roll down, a psychologist said, it somehow reduces the pain and surely healing is there. Talking to the offender is one great tehcnique I did, I explained my feelings, tremors, sleepless nights, insecurities and sadness.

You know, when I was cheated by my husband, deep sadness came, as if someone died, as if I am grieving all day, but mind you it is part of the process. I am now on my 7th month of healing, I rate myself as # 3 if the highest or perfect score is a 10. Slowly but surely, with a lot of prayers and meditation.

Am praying for all of us.

9 Comments:

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6:08 AM  
Blogger Mern said...

I am in my 4th year of healing from my husband's affair with a co-worker; their secret affair was off and on for 9 years. It is still difficult but it does get better.

1:36 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I bought my tracking gps at www.gpsspousetracking.com
Theirs didn't have any monthly fees and it just plugs into my usb port to retrieve information on where the vehicle traveled, stopped, for how long. etc.

Best regards and good luck,

jay

10:15 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I bought my tracking gps at www.gpsspousetracking.com
Theirs didn't have any monthly fees and it just plugs into my usb port to retrieve information on where the vehicle traveled, stopped, for how long. etc.

Best regards and good luck,

jay

10:15 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My husband cheated on me with our realtor. They started the affair in January, I found out April. I left him and stayed with my parents for a couple of month and he resumed it..I am in so much pain, don think will ever get over it

1:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my now ex cheated when i was pg with our son. he left me on and off for over a year until i had it with his 'needing space' - which meant a trip or night out with her.

i am still hurting like crazy and dont know if i will ever trust again.

8:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My wife has committed an emotional infidelity . she so distant. but she seems to go on like nothings wrong. she told me she was never in love with me. i have 2 children . i hurts so bad every day.

4:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I found out today my husband has been having an affair with his coworker... I found a pic of them kissin. It has been going on for months. The lies hurt the most. I left him . He says they r in love I realize I have to love myself in this kind of situation. If not I will beat myself down with guilt. If someone has cheated on you and you feel hopeless. Please know your amazing and you deserve someone who truly cares about you and that person will come. Meanwhile please love yourself. We need to be strong. We need remain positive, I know easier said than done. But we can't give up. Much love.

4:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I've been with my husband 4 20yr and we been married 4 over 10yrs. I cheated on my husband after b n faith ful 4 over 14yrs with my first love from 1985.my husband is a great father and husband and has a great career. But I'm no longer n love with him.I have been c n my first love 4 over 6yrs and I am truly n love with him, however he has nothing 2 offer me but sex, and he feels that I should leave my husband so that we can get married, he has never done anything 4 me but buy me dinner and get a hotel room n 6yrs. Since I won't leave my husband he doesn't want 2 have anything 2 do with me anymore the only contact we have made n the last 2 months has been by way of text and when he responds 2 me he say very hurtful things 2 me. I'm having withdrawals because I want him so bad that it hurts. But I know he's not good 4 me because he hasn't done anything 2 make a life 4 us he feels that everything should b giving 2 him. I'm so Confused and madly n love with a selfcentered man that thinks its all about what works 4 him. I don't doubt his love 4 me.

2:40 PM  

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