Cheating… Why we do it? (Part II)
Here are more reasons why people cheat…
In some culture or communities, it is the custom that marriages are arranged. Here, men and women don’t have the luxury of choosing their own life partner; it’s prearranged by their parents or guardians. For some community it’s customary for marriage to be arranged, for others like the Indian community where the caste system is in practice, and marriage is usually pre-arranged because you simply have to marry someone of the same caste or a better caste.
In an arranged marriage, usually the bride and groom will only see each other on the wedding day. So, what are the odds that such a marriage will stand the test of time especially if they have a sweet heart with whom marriage is out of the question.
People marry for many reasons; for money, power and social standing, reasons other than love. This more often than not results in unhappy marriages but for some reason a divorce is not an option. So, they start an affair instead! To escape from a marriage that sucks!
Alternatively, some start an affair just to spite their spouse. This is probably one of the weirdest reasons for starting an affair…
On the extreme side, we also have people who have problems with fidelity. Staying faithful is definitely and issue with such person and somehow or other, they tend to seek out other partners.
1 Comments:
My husband cheated on me with six different women over a three year period all whom he found on internet sex sites. Basically he couldn't get me to orgasm very well and was frustrated about that and 'couldn't discuss it with me' (his words)so he tried out these others for a few sexual encounters -maybe an average of three to four times for each one. I, meanwhile was reading sex manuals and trying to figure this out and he was not that interested in that or counseling. Because unknown to me - they of course 'had multiple orgasms everytime' with no problem at all which made him feel better and that it was my problem not his. One of them he actually liked enough to end up having a 14 month affair with (#5) but not enough to be not be seeing # 6 at the same time before I caught him online chatting with her. I personally doubt that they all had these amazing orgasms and that some of them were faking big time but never the less ... it made him feel better - So that's one more reason - the male ego.
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